FOUR FOR FRIDAY 16: FIRST FRIDAY

“Become the art instead of the artist. The dance instead of the dancer.”

Man, how I do look forward to this time. It’s a dedicated time to check in with myself across these four realms. A chance to review last month’s goals and focuses, and realign or reassociate as needed. This isn’t a time for judgment or self-condemnation. Instead, it’s a moment for reflection, authenticity, and creativity.

Dissociate from the judgment surrounding the artist that you are. Become the art itself, and immerse yourself in who you are becoming. In my opinion, this is one pathway to achievement.

FOURM Check-In Instructions

This is your FOURM check-in. Use this form to reflect on how you are feeling in these four realms of being. Below, you will find sections to fill in your thoughts for each category. Please label the date at the top before you start. I recommend doing this once a month and encourage you to be very honest with yourself, as this is the only way toward true growth and evolution. 

Reflection Categories

- Wins: Achievements or positive experiences in the category.

- Woes: Areas where you feel you are struggling or not doing as well.

- Work-Ons: Things you’d like to focus on more in the upcoming month to aid your growth journey.

Please add your own thoughts in each section below. As always, reach out with any questions.

Date ______________

SELF

Rating (0-10) ________

Rate your level of fulfillment in this category, with 10 being completely fulfilled and 0 being the opposite. 

Consider including thoughts on aspects you value related to your independent self. Here are some ideas to guide your reflection: work, including achievements, challenges, and goals; trips, such as memorable experiences and their impact on you; goals, noting progress toward personal goals; readings, including books or articles that have influenced you; learnings, such as new skills or knowledge acquired; and notable standouts, or any other significant events or accomplishments related to your individual growth.

HEALTH

Rating (0-10) ________

Rate your level of fulfillment in this category, with 10 being completely fulfilled and 0 being the opposite. 

This category includes aspects such as your physical health, diet, sleeping habits, exercise, and more. Feel free to include your own thoughts and ideas about what influences your health and energy levels.

SPIRITUALITY

Rating (0-10) ________

Rate your level of fulfillment in this category, with 10 being completely fulfilled and 0 being the opposite. 

Please reflect on what this realm means to you. Do you consider God, or any other forms of a higher being? What is your connection with faith, soul, spirit, and divinity? How do you connect with your soul? How have you been connecting with the deeper parts of yourself?

RELATIONSHIPS

Rating (0-10) ________

Rate your level of fulfillment in this category, with 10 being completely fulfilled and 0 being the opposite. 

Consider how you think you have related in this category. This can include your roles as a parent, friend, colleague, son, partner, etc. Take time to reflect on how you have shown up relationally.

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